Inevitable points in life.

There’s birth and death, but what are the others? When I look back there are points of inevitably.

It seems that whatever roads I took in life they would bring me to the same points and people. It’s like I have choice, but I’m here for a purpose so whatever choices I make, certain things have to happen, otherwise there’d be no meaning and purpose to life.

My choices determined whether I learned the hard way or the easy way and sometimes what appeared to be the hard way was in fact the easy way. If I tried to avoid a point of inevitability it would happen more painfully.

These are fixed life changing points and people and it’s only in hindsight that I realise they formed the map of my life.

If you’re old enough, look back for them, if you’re still young, keep an eye out for them and see when and how they appear to others and how they react to them.

Some people hurt us to change us, some love and support us to help us through the challenges, we are meant to meet and be with them as they are important for our development. The challenges and how we deal with them are what change us and determine who and what we become. They have to be difficult and humbling to change us for the better. An easy life is a wasted life.

Understand these points to understand who and what you are. See them in those around you to help and support them through their difficult times.

Only then are you a true life warrior.