Soften To Fold

Words have power. One of the reasons I use carefully chosen keywords as door labels in our memory palace. To carry on my earlier post on the Taoist term ‘unfolding’… When I was learning in HK one phrase that really got me to do with the joints was ‘soften to fold’. When we ‘bend’ joints we tend to hold too much tension but to ‘soften’ and then ‘fold’ released excess tension and really changed my perspective giving my form a better ‘Tai Chi feel’. This why I choose my coaching vocabulary very carefully, as it can make all the difference … Continue reading Soften To Fold

Unfolding

Unfolding. Our true destiny is programmed into us. It is our instincts. In the same way that we have to re-learn the language of our body and energy, we have to learn that of our instincts. Our societal programming and thinking block our ability to listen to them, this is why stillness and silence help us to develop the necessary sensitivity to feel rather than think. When we can do this we get to know who and what we truly are and what we should be doing, developing our own internal locus of power, discovering our true destiny and allowing … Continue reading Unfolding

Belief and Faith

This is an important difference that I think a lot of people miss. If you ‘believe’ something, it means that you don’t know, are going to guess if it’s true and cling to it. You can’t get past the first limited stage of learning. I try to avoid that. If you have ‘faith’ in something it means that you yield to it and let it do its work unhindered. Blind faith is not good, but faith in a tried and tested idea or system means that you won’t get in the way of learning. Faith in a good teacher, a … Continue reading Belief and Faith

Everyday Training

Some days I feel fatigued and unwell so my morning training is slow, small frame and deliberate to recharge my system. Some days my arthritis is bad and I need momentum and small frame to carry me over the pain points, excite my system a little and ease the stiffness. Some days I feel good so I move and stretch my core to the max with large frame letting my enthusiasm enjoy, excite and move my body and energy. Some days I want to carry my deep meditation on into the form so move with great intensity like I’m underwater … Continue reading Everyday Training

Mindful Training

I teach the opposite. Too many people think that their way is the only way. Everyone is different, and ‘one size to fit all’ is for people that are unable or too lazy to think for themselves. We need to understand ourselves, our body, emotions, how our mind works, and listen to our body, energy, instincts and emotions, set our goals and plan a routine with expert advice if possible on how to achieve them and be prepared to alter it if it isn’t working. An 80 yrs old arthritic sufferer, a 40 yrs old mum, someone rehabilitating from illness … Continue reading Mindful Training

Lineage and Secrets

One of the things we discussed today was ‘secret teachings’ and ‘lineage’ emanating from some of the silly posts that crop up on social media. Who has ‘the secrets’ and who doesn’t is an incredibly childish argument and understanding by narrow minded people. Firstly there’s good and bad teachers and they can come from all sources, some with family lineage and some without. There’s also good and bad students taught by the good teachers. How can you tell who is who?Simple.Get hands on with them and feel for yourself.Look at their character, track record and development.Look at their senior students, … Continue reading Lineage and Secrets

A Better Way In 2026

Let me offer a more permanent solution to all the things you’re about to do and fail at. Don’t diet to look good. Eat to care for your body, the animals and the environment. Don’t punish your body at the gym out of vanity or to please others. Train in a method that heals your body and nourishes your emotions, mind and spirit changing you for the better permanently. Don’t see your club or work as a ‘business’ to make money. See it as value and support for your community enriching your local environment and genuinely helping colleagues and students … Continue reading A Better Way In 2026

Tai Chi With Closed Eyes?

Should you practice Tai Chi with your eyes closed? Yes and no. The eyes direct your intent and the intent directs the chi. By looking at the yang (husband) hand you are cultivating the chi to that point for striking and pushing etc. By looking to the yin (wife) hand you are cultivating it for yielding, pulling or shaking etc. By looking at the opponent you are cultivating the technical combative use. By closing them you are cultivating the internal use for sensitivity and allowing the chi to use its own intelligence and give you insight to its use for … Continue reading Tai Chi With Closed Eyes?

Kime and Fajin

Kime and FajinWords are always inadequate and can only point the way to a much deeper meaning. If you say ‘kick’ to a non martial artist, they’d think of kicking a football or a tin can, a martial artist would think of something far deeper and a senior martial artist even deeper still. Translating from one language to another confuses it even more. I often see heated discussion between people looking at the same thing through different windows that can’t see it’s the same. The literal translation of Japanese or Chinese words is insufficient for the martial arts. The word … Continue reading Kime and Fajin